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You Make a Difference

Blue Ribbon to show that You Make a Difference

You make a difference
 You are important to me.
You have made a wonderful difference in my life.

“Make a Difference” Movie – Fictional Story by Mary Reynolds about a teacher named, Miss Thompson and Teddy Stallard http://www.makeadifferencemovie.com/.

Quotes about helping and/or making a difference http://www.quotegarden.com/helping.html

“Acknowledgment” Movie “Who You Are Makes a Difference,” a true story of a teacher named Helice “Sparky” Bridges, the creator of the Acknowledgment Ceremony and author of book, “Who I Am Makes A Difference,http://www.acknowledgmentmovie.com/


The following email was sent to me several times since 2005. The words are almost the same as in the “Acknowledgment” Movie. Here’s what Snopes has to say: http://www.snopes.com/glurge/difference.asp.

You are making a difference today. You are important to this earth. Be thankful. Believe in yourself. Take time to tell others you appreciate them and what they mean to you.

“In 1988, a teacher in New York decided to honor each of her seniors in high school by telling them the difference they each made. She called each student to the front of the class, one at a time.  First she told each of  them how they had made a difference to her and the class.  Then she presented each of them with a blue ribbon imprinted with gold letters which read,  “Who I Am Makes a Difference.”  Afterwards the teacher decided to do a class project to see what kind of impact recognition would have on a community.

She gave each of the students three more ribbons and instructed them to go out and spread this acknowledgment ceremony. Then they were to follow up on the results, see who honored whom and report back to the class in about a week.

One of the boys in the class went to a junior executive in a nearby company and honored him for helping him with his career planning. He gave him a blue ribbon and put it on his shirt. Then he gave him two extra ribbons and said, “We’re doing a class project on recognition, and we’d like you to go out, find somebody to honor, give them a blue ribbon, then give them the extra blue ribbon so they can acknowledge a third person to keep this acknowledgment ceremony going. Then please report back to me and tell me what happened.

Later that day the junior executive went in to see his boss, who had been noted, by the way, as being kind of a grouchy fellow. He sat his boss down and he told him that he deeply admired him for being a creative genius. The boss seemed very surprised. The junior executive asked him if he would accept the gift of the blue ribbon and would he give him permission to put it on him. His surprised boss said, “Well, sure.” The junior executive took the blue ribbon and placed it right on his boss’s jacket above his heart. As he gave him the last extra ribbon, he said, “Would you do me a favor? Would you take this extra ribbon and pass it on by honoring somebody else? The young boy who first gave me the ribbons is doing a project in school and we want to keep this recognition ceremony going and find out how it affects people.

That night the boss came home to his 14-year-old son and sat him down, He said, “The most incredible thing happened to me today. I was in my office and one of the junior executives came in and told me he admired me and gave me a blue ribbon  for being a creative genius.  Imagine.  He thinks I’m a creative genius. Then he put this blue ribbon that says ‘Who I Am Makes A Difference’ on my jacket above my heart.  He gave me an extra ribbon and asked me to find somebody else to honor. As I was driving home tonight, I started thinking about whom I would honor with this ribbon and I thought about you. I want to honor you. My days are really hectic and when I come home I don’t pay a lot of attention to you. Sometimes I scream at you for not getting good enough grades in school and for your bedroom being a mess, but somehow tonight, I just wanted to sit here and, well, just let you know that you do make a difference to me. Besides your mother, you are the most important person in my life. You’re a great kid and I love you!”

The startled boy started to sob and sob, and he couldn’t stop crying.  His whole body shook. He looked up at his father and said through his tears, “I was planning on committing suicide tomorrow, Dad, because I didn’t think you loved me. Now I know you care. This is the happiest day I’ve known.”

The boss went back to work a changed man. He was no longer a grouch but made sure to let all his employees know that they made a difference. The junior executive helped several other young people with career planning and never forgot to let them know that they made a difference in his life…one being the bosses son.   And the young boy and  his classmates learned a valuable lesson. Who you are DOES make a difference!”


I’ll leave you with this beautiful, inspiring, and powerful video, “One Person Can Make a Difference,” created by in 2007 to apply for a scholarship. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LdojxtLI25g

Thank you for being on my path and filling my life with joy! You Have Made a Difference in My World. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

Never Give Up!
Joan Y. Edwards


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2 Responses

  1. Joan,

    No matter what our occupation, we have a chance to make a difference in someone else’s life. Thanks for the sweet reminder.

    Linda A.


    • Dear Linda, You are exactly right. You make a difference in everyone’s life that you meet! The difference you make is outstanding. You have been a great friend to me and to many others. Do something fun!

      Have a Flip Flap Floodle Day!

      Joan Y. Edwards, Author/Illustrator Flip Flap Floodle at Amazon http://www.amazon.com/Flip-Flap-Floodle-Joan-Edwards/dp/1594572852/ Website http://www.joanyedwards.com Never Give Up Blog http://www.joanyedwards.wordpress.com


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