Joy Smith, Author – Tell Me a Story, I’ll Bake You a Cake


Joy Smith

“Joy Smith, Author – Tell Me a Story, I’ll Bake You a Cake” Interview by Joan Y. Edwards

Thank you for allowing me to interview you, Joy. It’s exciting that in October, 2016 you published “Tell Me a Story, I’ll Bake You a Cake.”

Joan, you are welcome.

My readers are looking forward to learning more about you and the self-publishing path you chose, so let’s get started.

1. Where were you born?
Richmond, Virginia

2. Did you have a favorite place to read a book as a child? Where and why?
Under the covers at night reading with a flashlight.  It was after my bedtime and my parents wouldn’t know I was still awake.

3. What’s your favorite book that you’ve ever read? Why?

Horton Hatches The Egg, by Dr. Seuss.  It was my first book.  I kept renewing it at the library so many times that my parents finally bought it for me.  I met Dr. Seuss at a book signing in New York in 1986.  I took my beat up, crayon marked Horton book with me and when he signed it he smiled and said,  “Do you know this is a first edition?”  Now I have a SIGNED first edition.  It’s one of my most prized possessions.

4. Why did you decide to write your cook book? How did you decide to tell a story with each recipe?

I wrote a cooking column, “Cooking With Joy,” for the Fort Mill Times for ten years.  My readers urged me to put these columns in a book, which I did.

5. Why do you write? 

I started writing as a kid and I’ve never outgrown it.  I just enjoy it.

6. What is your advice for writers?

Write about what you know.

Tell Me a Story, I’ll Bake You a Cake by Joy Smith

7. Why did you choose AuthorHouse to publish your book?

After speaking to several publishers I chose AuthorHouse because they were better suited to meet my needs.  I wanted a hardback book with glossy pages and color pictures in it.  Some didn’t give me this option.

8. Did you pay for editing services before you submitted your book to AuthorHouse? 

I hired Beth Crosby to edit it for me before I submitted it to them.

9. Who designed your cover?

Kim Hajas, a friend and well-known graphic designer designed the cover of my book.  Her company Hajas Design is in Fort Mill, SC.

10. In which formats is your book available?

It is available in paperback, hardback, and eBook.

11. Did you pay separately for ISBNs or were these included in a your package?

The ISBNs were included in the package by AuthorHouse.

12. Does AuthorHouse offer a book return agreement with book stores? Or do book stores take your books on consignment?

AuthorHouse has a book return agreement with book sellers.

13. How does AuthorHouse market your book?

They created a website for me, provided a variety of marketing tools such as business cards, postcards, bookmarks, and sent a detailed step-by-step guide to help me join social media.

14. How are you marketing your book?

I am marketing my book by:

  • Press releases, book signings, media coverage in newspapers and magazines
  • Facebook
  • Group emails to high school class, college class, clubs I belong to, and a long list of friends.
  • Contacting book stores, gourmet kitchen stores, and gift stores.
  • Being a guest speaker at several venues in the Charlotte area
  • Word of mouth

15. Did you get to choose the retail price for your book?

No.

16. Is the cost of the book to you as the author low enough that you can make a profit from your sales?

Yes.

Joy Smith lives in Fort Mill, South Carolina, with her husband and a quirky cat. She loves cooking, entertaining, traveling, playing tennis and bridge, riding horses, gardening when it’s not too hot (which is almost never in South Carolina), and enjoying good wine. Her sense of adventure has taken her to Antarctica on a National Geographic expedition, skydiving, climbing mountains, and searching for the perfect roller coaster.

Joy participated as a sous-chef on the Food Network show “Ready . . . Set . . . Cook”; was a guest chef on the NBC show Charlotte Today; taught a class, “From the Garden to the Table”; and wrote a popular cooking column, “Cooking With Joy,” for ten years. Readers have enjoyed her stories and recipes featured in several magazines and newspapers. Her stories will entertain you as you read Tell Me a Story, I’ll Bake You a Cake.

Buy a copy of her book:

AuthorHouse
Amazon
Barnes & Noble

Visit Joy Smith’s website: http://www.cookingwithjoysmith.com

Meet Joy at Book Signing: Park Road Books, Charlotte, NC on Saturday, April 29th, from 11:00 AM – 1:00 PM.

Joy, I know my readers enjoyed learning about you. Thank you again for sharing your publishing path with us.

Thank you for reading. Feel free to ask Joy a question or let her know your favorite recipe in the comment area.

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Wonderful Surprise at Barnes and Noble Book Signing


 

Signing Berdetta Culver's copy of Joan's Elder Care Guide

Signing Berdetta Culver’s copy of Joan’s Elder Care Guide

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Oh my goodness! What a great book signing event we had on Saturday, February 25, 2017! Thanks to Barnes and Noble and The Charlotte Writers Club for providing the opportunity to take part in this Book Fair at the Arboretum store. It was over the top wonderful in every way! Thank you to the following people for coming by: Dy English, Lorrie York Hackett, Mollie York Chewning, Mark Chewning, Kylie Hackett, Luke Chewning, Wyatt Chewning, Janet Meyer-Jackman, Barbara Lunow, Dan Lunow, Janis Silverman, Richard Silverman, Jeff Dubrielle, and Patricia Duran.

First came, Dy English, an illustrator friend from The Society of Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators (SCBWI). Thank you, Dy.

Dy English and me

Dy English and me

Thank you to my daughters and their families, Lorrie Hackett, Mollie and Mark Chewning, Kylie Hackett, Luke and Wyatt Chewning for coming to my book signing. A few minutes after they came, I got a big surprise that brought tears of gladness to my eyes. My sister, Janet Meyer-Jackman flew down from Michigan to be there! So sweet! Everyone enjoyed keeping the secret!

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My Big Surprise – My sister, Janet Meyer-Jackman and me

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Kylie Hackett, Lorrie Hackett, Mollie Chewning, Janet Meyer-Jackman, and me.

Front left to right: Luke Chewning and Wyatt Chewning Second Row, Joan, Mollie Chewning, Lorrie Hackett, Kylie Hackett Third Row,Barbara Lunow, Patricia Duran Fourth Row: Richard Silverman, Janis Silverman, Dan Lunow, Mark Chewning, Janet Meyer-Jackman Front left to right: Luke Chewning and Wyatt Chewning
Second Row, Joan, Mollie Chewning, Lorrie Hackett, Kylie Hackett
Third Row,Barbara Lunow, Patricia Duran
Fourth Row: Richard Silverman, Janis Silverman, Dan Lunow, Mark Chewning, Janet Meyer-Jackman

Mark and Mollie Chewning, Lorrie Hackett

Mark and Mollie Chewning, Lorrie Hackett

Luke Chewning and Maw Maw Joan

Luke Chewning and Maw Maw Joan

Here’s the way it went. Lorrie, Kylie, Mark, and Wyatt were sitting on the long bench in front of the magazine section. Mollie and Luke were standing in front of the magazines. I asked them what they’d been doing today. Mollie said, “We’ve been shopping.”

“What were you shopping for?” I asked.

Mollie said, “Turn around and see!”

There stood my sister, Janet Meyer-Jackman! Oh my goodness! Tears ran down my cheeks.

Video of my sister, Janet surprising me at the book signing!

Thank you to Jeff Dubreuil for coming. I hadn’t seen him in about 20 years. He and his sister are caring for their Mother. I am praying for them.

Jeff Dubreuil and me

Jeff Dubreuil and me

Thank you, Janis Silverman and Richard Silverman for coming. Janis was the leader of the writing group that helped me get Flip Flap Floodle in shape for publication. She let me know that my frog illustration needed work. She couldn’t tell that the frog was a frog!

Janis and Richard Silverman with me

Janis and Richard Silverman with me

Thank you to Barbara Lunow and Dan Lunow for coming. Barbara was in the Savvy Wordsmiths critique group in Fort Mill that closed down last year. I miss seeing them once a month.

Barbara and Dan Lunow with me

Barbara and Dan Lunow with me

Patricia Duran, thank you for coming and for helping me pack up my books and things and carrying them to my car. Patricia and I are movie friends who make each other laugh.

Patricia Duran and me

Patricia Duran and me

I was wound up, high in the clouds, feeling great!

When it came time for my reading, I was excited.

I am so thankful to God. There was a crowd of about 15-18 people watching and listening. Most sat in a semi-circle. Others stood to my left. I am thankful to Liz G. Williams and Ione O’Hara, two of the other authors at the book fair who listened to my readings. That was so sweet.

I read first from Joan’s Elder Care Guide encouraging caregivers to ask questions and to keep asking them until they get the answer they need. I told that it is very important to leave a plan that includes what the elder can and cannot do because it helps the substitute caregiver do a good job.

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Afterwards, I read from Flip Flap Floodle. I planned to stop after Flip meets Mr. Bear, but I said, “One more page won’t hurt, right?”

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Ione O’Hara said, “Show us the fox. We know he’s in there.”

So I showed them Mr. Fox who didn’t like Flip’s song and swallowed him whole. Flip was inside the Fox’s belly still playing his song. Flip’s Mother bopped Mr. Fox with her pocketbook and sprinkled pepper on his nose. Mr. Fox sneezed. Out flew Flip Flap Floodle still playing his song on his flute. Flip Flap Floodle, Floodle Floodle. Click here to hear me sing Flip’s song.

Thank you very much to Whitney Schuner, the Community Business Development Manager
Barnes & Noble-Arboretum. She did an outstanding job of organizing the Book Fair at the Barnes and Noble – Arboretum. All of us authors appreciate you.

Whitney Schuner, Community Business Development Manager Barnes & Noble-Arboretum

Whitney Schuner, Community Business Development Manager
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I sold 6 copies of Flip Flap Floodle and 5 copies of Joan’s Elder Care Guide. Thank you to all of you who came and a special thanks for purchasing my books and those by other authors! The event was such a success that Barnes and Noble and Charlotte Writers Club may agree to have an annual bookfair!

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Reblog: Don’t Do for Others What They Can Do for Themselves: North Shore Care Supply


Reblog: “Don’t Do for Others What They Can Do for Themselves” by Joan Y. Edwards – North Shore Care Supply Blog

A couple of weeks ago, Adam Greenberg, owner/President of North Shore Care Products asked me on LinkedIn if I would be a guest on their blog. Thank you, Adam.

Wow! What an honor! I hope you’ll stop by! Feel free to email Adam at info@northshorecare.com and let him know you liked it.

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Here’s the beginning paragraph.

Many times in life you see others struggling to accomplish something. You are tempted to do it for them. That shows your compassion. You can do it easier than they can. It’ll be a more-perfect job. However, don’t do for others what they can do for themselves. Show respect for them. Make them stronger and more confident so they can continue to do it for themselves. Don’t do it for them; help them achieve it. Be a partner, not a solo.

To read more, go to: http://www.northshorecare.com/blog/dont-do-it-for-them-help-them/

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Reblog: Danny Chadwick’s Post: The Best Online Book Publishing Services of 2017


Being informed is the best way to make a decision. To give you more information about self-publishing companies, I searched for good articles. Here’s the best one I found.

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Reblog: The Best Online Book Publishing Services of 2017 by Danny Chadwick

 

Whether you are a new author looking to publish your first book, a seasoned indie self-publisher or a traditionally published author looking to expand into the world of print on demand, online book publishing services can format, print and publish your books quickly and affordably. Books printed and shipped on demand eliminate the need for traditional large print runs and costly warehouses stacked with books, not to mention the stress of submitting your story to countless editors only to be rejected. Even better, your book can go from manuscript form to an eBook in a matter of hours, while a handsome bound volume can arrive at your doorstep in a matter of days.

For this buying guide, we looked for publishers that provide affordable publishing packages along with quality services and support for new and experienced authors. We also examined the reach of each publisher’s distribution, as well as its pricing and royalty structure, to find out what each publisher does best. 

To read the whole article: click here: http://www.toptenreviews.com/services/home/best-online-book-publishing-companies/

 

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Interview: Stephanie Barko, Literary Publicist


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Stephanie Barko, Literary Publicist

“Interview: Stephanie Barko, Literary Publicist” by Joan Y. Edwards

Thank you for being a guest on my blog today, Stephanie. Your life, your tips, your book publicist services, and your DIY Book Platform app will inspire authors and help them decide the best way to publicize their books.

You’re welcome. It’s my pleasure to be here and to share book publicity ideas with authors.

Let’s begin.

  • Where were you born?

    In Houston, and I have the lungs to prove it. (Houston has the worst air quality in the US.)

  • What qualities of your parents do you admire the most?

    My dad lost his dad when he was three and had to commit his mom to a mental institution when he was 10, so he was effectively an orphan raised by his brothers. He was the only one of five brothers to go to college, which he did on a football scholarship. My mom was a swimmer who went to Olympic trials and missed getting in by one-tenth of a second. Her shoebox full of medals blows my mind. The year I was born, my parents started a business that is still going today–sales, service and rental of industrial equipment.  My people are a little OCD, but we’re driven to achieve. Failure is not an option.

  • If you go to an amusement park, which ride do you head to first?

  Tilt-a-Whirl        

  • Which ride do you avoid at all costs?

Roller coaster or anything that sends my neck into the chiropractor.

  • How did you do in English in high school?

Splendidly, despite being a slow reader.

  • What were three books you loved when you were a child?

The Cat in the Hat, The Velveteen Rabbit, Alice in Wonderland

  • What are three of your favorite books to read today?

Anything by Anne Lamott

  • Where is your favorite place to visit? Why?

Alaska because it’s the way the planet would look without us around to mess it up, although it started melting after my last visit.

  • Who or what has been the most help and inspiration to you in your life?

My middle school English teacher whose motto was “Take initiative!” which dovetailed with the entrepreneurial spirit in my household. And my mom’s best friend, who is 96 this year, a naturalized American from Versailles.

  • From my meeting you and seeing you at the Oklahoma Writers’ Federation Inc (OWFI) conference in May, 2016, it seems that you enjoy being with people. You are very friendly and outgoing. This is a great quality. Do you require a lot of alone time? How do you get it when your job as a publicist may require a lot of interacting with others?

On Myers-Briggs I am 50/50 introvert/extrovert, so as much as I put out, I spend putting back in. I am a mole in a hole on my laptop, just like a writer, until I go to a conference.

  • How do you keep yourself physically fit?

These days I walk or go to PT.

  • Do you set dates to meet your goals? Do you celebrate when you reach them?

I set goals every year, either in November or January and then I revisit them in June to see where I am. I usually nail the physical goals (I’m a minor health nut), and have mixed results in the other categories. Celebration for me usually involves a gluten-free menu on a white tablecloth with an adult beverage.

  • Who do you go to when you’re feeling low and about to give up?

I learned a long time ago that my pen and my friends are my family, so I either hit my journal or the phone.

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  • When did you decide to become a literary publicist? Why?

I began this career in 2006 after an editor noticed me marketing other writers in our writing circle. Before that I marketed semiconductors, so it only took me a short while between careers to figure out that once a marketer, always a marketer. During 2005, I was simply changing products.

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Stephanie Barko, Literary Publicist

  • What has been your most exhilarating moment as a publicist?

Presenting in front of my peers in Denver at 2014 Author U Extravaganza. I never worked so hard on slides in my life!

  • What kind of research is necessary to develop a publicity plan for a client?

With ten years of experience, it’s the most fun thing I do, but I’m not going to give that away.

  • What are 3 tips you can give writers/authors?

1. It’s never too early to create your platform. 2. Agents look for craft first, so get it right and get it edited. 3. Know your audience and already have them identified before you query your manuscript.

  • What are three things that an author needs online?

1. Website 2. Blog 3. Social Suite

  • Wow! What a great number of clients you have with big publishers and small publishers and self-published authors! What three qualities helped you be a successful publicist?

To do the work I do, you have to be organized and persistent. I hear “no” as one step closer to the “yes” I’m going for. And you’ve got to be able to ask for what you want. I’m always amazed how long it takes women to articulate what they want. If you can ask for what you want, you’ll find that you get it about 75% of the time. Men just take what they want–they don’t even ask.

  • On February 9, 2016, Brian Jud stated in Inside Publishing Marketing & Publicity that successful book publishers market their books using an assorted mix of promotional media. The four parts to an assorted communication mix are publicity, advertising, sales promotion and personal selling. What are the essential ingredients of a good publicity campaign? Does it include advertising and sales promotion, as well as publicity? Do you do personal selling? Or is that for the author to do?

Some authors are good at hand selling. I promote. I never sell anything. I don’t believe in advertising novels, but I think advertising is okay for some nonfiction. A good PR campaign is specific to the subgenre and the author’s background. I don’t find it to be formulaic.

  • What are three books you would highly recommend to authors to help them learn how to market and sell their books successfully?

You can’t go wrong with John Kremer. If you write YA, I recommend Cynthia Leitich Smith’s website. I think it’s critically important for all authors to understand the impact Google has on us, so anything you can learn about their algorithm changes, about SEO, optimization and integration is important. I watch that more than I watch what Amazon is up to.

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  • How do you recommend writers go about finding a good publicist for their book?

You want one who routinely handles your subgenre, has no law suits against her or black marks on Preditors & Editors, and someone who has the connections you’re wanting to make. The level of vetting I recommend is somewhere between how you would investigate a surgeon vs. a housekeeper—you want to see both skill and integrity.

  • When is the best time to hire a publicist?

4-6 months PRIOR TO release date. Most authors approach me too late.

  • Could you give me a ballpark figure for the cost of having a publicist?

A full campaign runs $5K – $20K, depending on whether there’s media training, social media maintenance, or advertising rates rolled into the contract. Most of my contracts run $5K-$8K for 3-4 months of specific deliverables.

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  • What is DIY Book Platform?

DIY Book Platform is an app I created for authors of genres I don’t take and for authors who can’t afford a publicist. Purchase a 45-day pass to use it. Download it from www.diybookplatform.com.

  • It’s interesting that publicists have different genres they work with, similar to how agents choose different genres to represent. How did you decide that non-fiction adult books was your preference?

I like reality. I read nonfiction. Historical fiction is the other genre I take, and to me, that’s just reality redone as entertainment.

  • Do you do book reviews for nonfiction books?

Sometimes I will rate books on GoodReads that I read in my Austin book group.

  • What qualities does a nonfiction book need for you to consider representing its author as a publicist?

It needs to be well edited, well designed, with a goal of being published in more than one format.

  • How do you plan events for your authors?

I give advice on which events are worth their time.

  • How should authors/publishers contact you to ask if you’d represent them as a publicist?

Via email, stephanie (at) stephaniebarko (dot) com.

  • What is your website? Blog?

stephaniebarko.com, www.stephaniebarko.com/blog, and www.diybookplatform.com,

  • How can others connect with you on social media?

Facebook: Facebook.com/stephaniebarko
Twitter: twitter.com/steffercat
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/stephaniebarko
GooglePlus: google.com/+StephanieBarko
Pinterest: pinterest.com/StephanieBarko
YouTube: youtube.com/c/StephanieBarko

Links for DIY Platform (Stephanie Barko’s App for authors who can’t afford a publicist or who write in the genres she doesn’t serve)
Download DIY Platform app: www.diybookplatform.com
Facebook Page facebook.com/diybookplatform
Twitter: twitter.com/diybookplatform
LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/diy-book-platform
GooglePlus: https://plus.google.com/u/0/s/DIY%20Book%20Platform
Pinterest: pinterest.com/StephanieBarko/diy-book-platform
YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UC1Uup1EgXemIeqU3W10rcMQ

Biography
Stephanie Barko’s award-winning clients include traditional publishers and their authors, small presses, and independently published writers. She promotes nonfiction & historical fiction exclusively, including how-to, history, career, business, biography, self-help, and memoir.  Debut authors and spiritual nonfiction are especially welcome.

Ms. Barko was invited into the publishing industry after many years in high tech marketing. She has presented on book marketing & publicity at Historical Novel Society North American Conference, Oklahoma Writers FederationDFW Writers, and Women Writing the West. Her articles and book reviews have been published in Western American LiteratureRoundup MagazineSouthern Writers MagazineSan Francisco Book Review, and the Texas Book Marketing Directory. She has been quoted in Writer’s Digest and was selected to Mentor at 2017 SXSW Interactive.

She was a Finalist in More Magazine’s Reinvention Story Competition, nominated by her peers as Book Publicist of the Year, and voted Preditors & Editors Best Book Promotion Service.  Stephanie has served as a Recommended Associate at Author U, an Industry Expert at Author Learning Center, and an Instructor for the Writers’ League of Texas. This year her agency was voted Best Resource in the Small Business Book Awards.

Development was completed in 2015 on DIY Book Platform, a web-based app that Stephanie conceived to serve authors who could not afford a publicist.

In 2014, Stephanie was profiled by both Environmental Defense Fund and National Audubon Society for her commitment to the earth. Since 2005, she has moderated a nonfiction book group that has hosted such nationally known authors as journaling expert Janet Conner (Writing Down Your Soul), genocide survivor and professional athlete Gilbert Tuhabony(This Voice In My Heart), and Paul Woodruff (Reverence), a TV guest of Bill Moyers.  Stephanie has degrees in Business & Sociology and is based in Austin.

Thank you again for being a guest on my blog today, Stephanie. You are a very talented, helpful, and energetic lady.

Thank you for reading my interview with Stephanie Barko. I hope you’ll leave her a little note. Feel free to ask a question. To comment, click below and scroll down to the very bottom.

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23 Ways to Control Your Attention to Succeed


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“23 Ways to Control Your Attention to Succeed” by Joan Y. Edwards

Most of the information in this blog post came from a handout Copyright © 1988 from Bjorn Secher Achievement Systems in Fort Lauderdale, Florida in 1988. I’ve reworded some of it to make it more meaningful.

You are today where your attention has brought you.
 You will be tomorrow where your attention takes you.
You cannot escape the result of your attention.
Attention is your most vital tool…Bjorn Secher

Is your focus scattered with distractions? I’ve had a little trouble focusing my attention lately, too. So I thought I’d read over notes I saved from Bjorn Secher. He was an expert in focusing attention in the 1980s. Reading these ideas might help you focus your thinking and feelings to achieve your goals.

Thought is the key to your success — and thoughts start from a single source…your attention. For increased health, happiness, and success, a change in your attention is essential. In the following, review how your attention influences every moment of your life.

Write 3 of the following statements that appeal to you on a 3″x 5″ index card. Refer to it 10 times a day for a month. It will help to activate your self-awareness and thereby automatically instigate positive behavior changes. Attention is the flow of your thoughts, consciously or unconsciously, in one direction or another, either positive or negative.

  1. When you focus your full attention on something with your thoughts and your emotions, you give it strength, energy, and power. It automatically becomes your priority.
  2. What you relate and identify with becomes your reality, positive or negative, depending on the focus of your attention.
  3. Any road can become a scenic route, depending upon your attention.
  4. Your attention creates the way you perceive the world around you.
  5. The direction of your attention determines what you see, think, hear, and feel.
  6. In any given situation, two interpretations of the same situation exist. Your attention with its beliefs and emotions decides the outcome.
  7. You are not responsible for other people’s actions, but you are always accountable for your own reactions. Your reaction depends upon how well you control your attention.
  8. Control your attention and you control your destiny.
  9. No event, situation, or circumstance can influence your thinking or emotions before you allow your attention to dwell upon it.
  10. When you deliberately change the focus of your attention, it is the first step for a discovery of possibilities that have existed all along.
  11. Attention with its beliefs and emotions is the basis for all decisions.
  12. By changing your attention, you automatically change your mood and attitude.
  13. Depending upon your attention, the problem will appear as an opportunity or turn an opportunity into a problem.
  14. Changing your attention with its thinking and emotions is the beginning of challenging any belief that you assumed was true in the past.
  15. To loosen shackles of your negative assumptions, place your attention on the concept of possibility.
  16. There are always new possibilities, answers, solutions, and techniques for a person with creative, open-minded attention.
  17. Attention creates images — and images are life’s controlling mechanisms.
  18. When you change the focus of your attention, you enter a whole new world and ways to think and act.
  19. Your good intention gets the job started; your controlled attention finishes it.
  20. Commitment and attention are synonymous. It’s very difficult to have one without the other.
  21. Your attention is your constant companion.
  22. In your attention lies the secrets to your strength, determination, and endurance.
  23. The most important thing to remember is wherever you fully put your attention, you will succeed.

When you concentrate your energy purposely on the future possibility that you aspire to realize, your energy is passed on to it and makes it attracted to you with a force stronger than the one you directed towards it.
― Stephen RichardsThink Your way to Success: Let Your Dreams Run Free

Thoughts Become Things… Choose The Good Ones!
― Mike Dooley

You are today where your thoughts have brought you; you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.”
James Allen

Thank you for reading my blog. I hope these ideas help you focus your attention to receive what brings you joy!

For the Giveaway from February 7 through midnight February 21, there were 3 people who left a comment. Thank you very much.

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  2. Carol Baldwin
  3. Linda Andersen

Random.org chose Number 2, so Carol Baldwin you win a free logo image with the favorite saying from this post or a saying of your own to help focus your attention. Please email me at joanyedwards1@gmail.com to let me know so I can create it for you.

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References

  1. Bjorn Secher. Your Appointment with Success: The Way to Get Rich:
    http://www.amazon.com/Your-Appointment-With-Success-Rich/dp/0811901971/
  2. James Allen. As a Man Thinkethhttps://www.amazon.com/As-Man-Thinketh-James-Allen/dp/1514698692/
  3. Joan Y. Edwards. “God Will Show You How” by Mary L. Kupferle public domain:  http://wp.me/pFnvK-1c
  4. Mike Dooley. Choose Them Wiselyhttps://www.amazon.com/Choose-Them-Wisely-Thoughts-Become/dp/1582702330/
  5. Stephen Richards.  Ask and the Universe Will Provide: https://www.amazon.com/Ask-Universe-Will-Provide-Straightforward-ebook/dp/B01FWWKSSY/

 

Book Signing Barnes & Noble Arboretum, Saturday, February 25, 2017 from 1-4 p.m.


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Come to see me on Saturday, February 25, 2017 from 1-4 p.m. Book signing Barnes & Noble Arboretum Shopping Center, 3327 Pineville Matthews Rd, Charlotte, NC 28226. Phone 704-341-9365.

Joint bookfair between Barnes and Noble and Charlotte Writers Club. Other authors will be there. Their names are below with the times they will do a reading!

If you can’t come in person, you can order online use Bookfair voucher ID 12077293: http://www.bn.com/bookfairs from 2/25/2017 to 3/2/2017 and include the Bookfair voucher ID 12077293 on the payment page during checkout.

At 3:30 p.m. I’ll be reading from one of my books – 15 minutes. I’m the last author to read! It’s an honor to be there.

Here’s the list of authors and the time they’ll read:

1:15 Ione O’Hara
1:30 M. Logan Ham
1:45 Linda Bost
2:00 Nancy LiPetri
2:15 Norma Dougherty
2:30 Ben Sharpton
2:45 Liz Gilmore Williams
3:00 Nancy Stancill
3:15  James Boatner
3:30 Joan Edwards


I know you’ll be with me in spirit, if you can’t be there in person! Thanks for caring about me!Flip Flap Floodle and I can’t wait to see you! 

 

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